How long have you been in your current relationship?

In general, how often do you give your partner compliments? These can be verbal, written or non-verbal

In general, how often do you criticize your partner? E.g. “You never…”, “You are hopeless at..”, “Why didn’t you…”

In general, how often do you relieve your partner of tasks to make their life easier?

In general, how often do you create more work for your partner by failing to meet an obligation or something you said you’d do e.g. not completing a household task such as unpacking the dishwasher

How often do you to touch your partner tenderly? e.g. massage, stroking, hugs, kissing

How often do you to organise romantic events or outings? E.g. date nights, picnics, walks on the beach,

In general, how often do you make time to spend talking one-to-one, without distractions, with your partner?

How often do you give gifts or tokens of love e.g. cards or notes to your partner

How often do you SURPRISE your partner with romantic gestures?